California is special. Yes, for some 'special' is a superlative for something else, and that's fine, but California has it going on. It's the world's 7th or 8th (?) largest economy for a reason. There are billions of people in this world that would give tremendously just to be here. The melting pot that is California is invaluable and as much as I despise some of negatives, being from Southern California, could not be more proud to call this state home.
Raising children and living life is not about shutting out the world we don't agree on by moving to a state/place that enables and promotes a narrow view of life. I see it as incredibly un-American. We are a country founded on immigrants, multiple cultures and religions. Why people choose to shun that is beyond me. Maybe I'll get it one day, but if I had kids, California would be the only place to call home.